my son has almost Forgotten that he has a father........
i heard his voice after few weeks today...........
today he is 3 years 5 months and one day old.......... i remember till the time he was with me we use to celebrate his birthday everymonth...........
today he told me he learnt "monday , tuesday " in school......and i said "even papa knows it beta.......
he thought iam asking him to give the phone to my father........so he gave the phone to him and ran off.......
and my dad asked me .....is there anything else? ...
and in my low voice i said no dad.........
before anything i heard the phone getting disconnected.........
2 comments:
channels of communication should always be open between father and son !
next time you speak to your son make sure you engage him by raising 'your own' level of curiosity.. ask him what all he does and what he intends doing.. engage him in conversation so that he experiences nearness with you despite being away (if at all he is away).
Children love to share and communicate, provided they find good listeners, especially in their parents.. when a child speaks pretend as though you never ever experienced (or know) what they are experiencing now.. then you would see the wonders of interacting with a child.. endless joy !!
And so should it be with your own father.. remember when parents are growing old then children tend to care for them, which means children acquire the parental role.. so again, the onus of keeping the relationship alive and making it 'grow stronger' falls more on 'grown-up children' than it does on parents !
a little paradigm change.. nothing else ! and you would see yourself conquering the world !!
dear Well wisher.....
who are you.........?
i really wish to know ....... i appreciate your writing comments to my posts and in some way they help me in holding up........
i wont write much in this regard as my lack of words will not justify the feelings.......
my son dosent live with me while my heart aches to see him.........
and if an oppertunity arrives where i can see him then i cant look at him........
we choose our actions once and then pay for the rest of our lives.........
i only can hope and pray.......Hope , the power given to humans by all mighty........
i feel like saying so much and at the same time i cant.........my silence remains my self defence.....
God Bless you.......
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